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Episode 15: Intro to Consent

Consent is the name of the game for this episode. After a quick blurb about grooming, it’s time to dive right in and talk about what is consent, what is not consent, and how to foster consent in children. Tune in next time for more sexy (and some possibly unsexy) the world of consent.

Links!
4 Ways Parents Teach Kids that Consent Doesn’t Matter
17 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Girls About Sex
16 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Boys about Sex
What Is Rape Culture
FriXion Teledildonics

Episode 14: Vagina Joke Aftercare

Another short episode this week. Listen to the importance of sexy after care and fantastic lab-grown vaginas. Also, a hilarious run-in with a local comedian.

LINKS!
Laboratory Grown Vaginas Successfully Transplanted Into Patients
Funny People (Look for the video of Aaron Dues from 4/19/14 for the accidental heckling.)
Aftercare: New AND Improved! Not Just For BDSM!

vulva

Episode 13: Lady Business

This week is all about the wonderful, and sometimes mysterious, female anatomy. Listen in and maybe learn some new things about the anatomy and physiology of the vulva.

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Clitoral Anatomy

LINKS!
Femalia
Petals
Lunapanties
DivaCup
GladRags
Shedding Light on the Myths About Women Who Have a Lot of Sex
Beautiful Labia (NSFW)

Episode 12: Rub-a-dub

This week’s episode contains two wonderful listener questions and an explanation about the lack of episode last week. Enjoy!

Episode 11: Girls on Sex

This week is a crossover with the Girls on Girls Podcast (!) and the discussion is all about things we wish we learned in sex ed.

Episode 10: Safer Sex

This week we’re going to get down to basics and talk about integrating some safety into your sexy.

LINKS!
Safer Sex (‘Safe Sex’)
What Is Safer Sex – A Comprehensive Approach – The STD Project
My Sexy Safe Sex Kit – YouTube
&sex Facebook
&sex email

Episode 9: Virginity

As promised, this week’s topic is virginity. Put your preconceived notions on hold and listen with an open mind about virginity, virgins, and hymens.

This week’s links:
How to Lose Your Virginity
Virgin: The Untouched History
The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women

 

Episode 8: Vibrator Withdrawal

This week it’s all about Ellen Page, the Wake-Up Vibe, and the pull-out method.

Links!:
Ellen Page’s Speech
The Wake-Up Vibe
Kama Sutra Closet
The Pull-Out Generation

Episode 7: Long Distance Penis

Two quick follow-ups from last week; a dialog about Long Distance Relationships; Jeff helps answer a question about penis size.

This week’s links:
Oh Joy Sex Toy – Long Distance Relationships
Taking Charge of Your Fertility
The Garden of Fertility
Isaiah 54:17

Episode 6: Desire Consent Myth

A brand new listener question this week about waning desire in longterm relationships; Adult actress Stoya’s article about consent and the porn industry; Listener mail about body awareness and viral statuses.

This week’s links:
Esther Perel
Stoya’s Article
Viral Status
Adult Performer Advocacy Committee